Monday, May 26, 2008

A Talk With Mr H Friend

Last Friday after work (Mr H picked me up around 7.30pm) we decided to go and lepak somewhere first since the road is totally jammed. And while we were deciding which shop to go lepak, he got a call from his friend to come and pick the beras. Yes... we import the beras from Kelantan. Beras Siam sedap wooo... So they decided to meet at TTDI since the road to go there was much clearer.

So we lepak at a Santai Restaurant. Quite a number of patrons there. The menu is Thai food. So you need not me to elaborate further on the menu. His friends oredered only drinks and we also ordered drinks only. Takkan nak lebih sudu dari kuah kan (betul kan?). So berborak la kami. Then, his friends noticed that we don't order any food. He asked us to order and he told us he just had his dinner half an hour before we met. The reason we don't order actually we were thinking on the food cooked by my mom. Nanti tak makan, mengamuk la pulak nasi & lauk tak habis. So Mr H called his mother in law (my mom, remember?) to tell her that we were not going to have dinner at home. My mom told him, "Lantaklah korang." Yes, my mom can speak that kind of language with my Mr H. Very d sempoi. Oh yes! I ordered nasi putih with kerabu mangga (dah bosan dah tengok senarai lauk2 lain) and Mr H ordered the usual.. nasi goreng with daging merah.

So sambil2 makan tu, his friend, I named him Mr L. He said he was in the same school as Mr H when they were in primary. He said, among their friends, Mr H is very naughty. It is surprising what they can see in Mr H now. They believe Mr H won't turned out to be a man. A responsible man I mean. They cannot believe the changes he has achieved. And I told him, they didn't know the feelings and emotions involved to see that change.

The frustration, the anger, happy, sad, etc to see that changes. I need to be brave in everything. He told me I was right. As a woman who needs to be with a brave man shall be brave as well. He told me he once witnessed the incident where Mr H had a row with an Ustaz at the school when they were in Standard 6. Kaw kaw punye gaduh. Bertumbuk, sepak terajang complete set. I told him, since I knew him, I'm not surprised at all. I don't think he told me this story by emphasizing te gaduh was very teruk. Hmmm.. he left out important details! Anyway, there were a lot of things that he had done that I think he shouldn't do. Which I don't want to list here. Saper yg tahu, dia tahu la. Kesian Mr H. Despite mulut nya agak kurang ajar bila marah, hati dia baik. And he can mix around with anybody without any difficulties. My friends, my family, my relatives, and everyone. Almaklumlah... "selesaman".

Well, Mr H, past is past and history doesn't need to be re-live. We just need to keep on change for a better person.

Adios.

2 comments:

mohad said...

saya tak faham citer awak ni..

Lila Hadi said...

bab mana yg awak tak paham? anyway, boleh saya tahu, awak ni sapa and selau ke baca blog saya?